I was told over and over by investors that I could not negotiate my own short sale because banks would not help their own customers, the homeowners, so I was very pleasantly surprised when I called my first one and asked them what I should do. I had been caught in a down turning real estate market and needed to sell my home, but I owed more than the house was worth. I had it on the market and did not know what I was going to do. Imagine my surprise when the lady on the other end of the line said “We will help homeowners.”
She then gave me a list of what I would need and I was able to get it done. It took 5 months, and we went through 6 potential buyers before it happened, but in the end, it was done.
I learned a lot from that transaction, and have since done several of them because I owned several houses and they were all “upside down” due to the declining value of real estate in general.
So do not let anyone tell you it can’t be done, because it can!
But be forewarned, it takes a lot of patience! Banks are not easy to deal with.
Employee turnover is a problem there like anywhere else, so you frequently have to start over building a relationship with a bank employee. This is necessary if you want to have a chance of getting your short sale done. And then there is this: the bank may sell your loan in the middle of the process and you will then have to start all over again.
But, if you just let the house go into foreclosure, your credit will be ruined for a long while, and you will not be able to get a mortgage loan for 5 years! A short sale on the other hand, will lower your score, but will not by itself keep you from getting a new loan, and it will not damage your score nearly as much. I know this from my old job where I looked at credit all day long.
So here is a summary of what you need to do.
First, there needs to be a compelling reason why you cannot pay off the mortgage. It may not be enough that your house is “upside down.” There also needs to be a lack of resources to pay the difference. If you have savings, the bank will just expect you to dip into savings to pay it off, or sign a note to keep paying the difference even though you are not living there any longer.
Also they will not start the process unless you are 60 days late on the mortgage, so you will have to let your credit get “dinged” until you can get some relief. It is part of the price you will have to pay. But assuming you are behind and need help, here is what you need to do.
First, write a letter explaining what happened to get you into this predicament.
Make it a real sob story, but do not lie. Do include that you have kids, or dependents that you support, if this is true.
Besides this, each bank has a list of what they want before they will consider your request. They call it their submission package. Typically it includes 2 or 3 months of bank statements, all pages, a month or two of paystubs, 2 years of tax returns, and all the information from your realtor. They will not usually let you sell it yourself but will want it listed with a real estate company. After this is all submitted, I strongly suggest you call every week on a specific day to check on your case. Otherwise it may get lost. Also don’t be surprised if they lose it anyway and you have to submit it over and over again. This is par for the course unfortunately. But don’t lose your cool. Just send it again. It is not the employee’s fault that you are in this mess. Be cordial no matter what because you need them to be on your side.
One thing that will happen during the process is that they will send someone to do an inspection, or BPO…meaning Broker’s Price Opinion. You can influence this a little by not cleaning your house and pointing out everything that is wrong with it, but for the most part you won’t be able to sway the inspector. Still, being friendly always helps, and you want it to come in as low as possible, so be sure to get a copy of the police report for the neighborhood, and a list of the sex offenders in the area. They are everywhere, and you can find this information online now. Even if the inspector is not influenced by this, sending the information to the bank will help your case. Also sending in any negative information about the housing market in the area is helpful. What you want is for the person making the decision to think that the house is worth as little as you can possibly make it seem like. One more thing: It can take so long to accomplish that the buyer you have will walk away and you will have to list it again. If this happens, do not inform the bank, because then they will put it on hold and you will have to start over once you find another buyer. Instead, just proceed as if it is going to close, and if they do approve the sale, you can then let them know that your buyer walked away because they took so long, but that you will continue to market it at the approved price. This way your realtor can list it as an approved short sale and it will not take any longer than a regular sale since all the paperwork is already done.
This is the basic process that has worked for me 6 times, so don’t let anyone tell you that you can’t do it. Good luck!